Sometimes, the way our bodies feel can affect how we decide things. — Human nature is a paradoxical blend. Stability might bore us, but when we face the unknown and unpredictable, fear grips us, making us feel unsafe and vulnerable. During my childhood, uncertainty was confined to eagerly awaiting grades, the fear of defeat in games, or the sting of potential romantic rejection…

It’s easy to practice once you understand the philosophies — For me, Japan is one of the most unique countries because they are proud of their own style. This is proven by the many philosophies that various countries have adopted. They have many lifestyle principles that even can’t be translated into English. …

two dilemmas that should not compete with each other. — I received two kinds of satisfying advice. The first type of advice tells me that I already have enough. It suggests I don’t really need to be super ambitious, hyper-effective, or meticulously follow every productivity tip out there. And, it reassures me that there’s nothing inherently wrong with being just…

I have no idea anymore how should a healthy close relationship actually be — As I grew older, I found myself naturally keeping a bit of space from people and being more selective about forming really close bonds, except within small, tight-knit circles. It just building relationships with people is just tough. It’s more draining than I ever anticipated. Human relationships can be intricate…

After this, you’ll likely put an end to debating this. — Which one comes first between quality and quantity? As I collect the perspectives of writers who create lengthier content than I do, it’s apparent that a notable portion tends to lean toward valuing quantity. However, there’s also a smaller group that emphasizes the importance of prioritizing quality. Each reason has…

Lacking it might drive someone to consider suicide — Lately, I’ve picked up a new habit. If I stumble upon content that’s a tad controversial, my go-to move is to casually scroll through the comment section. It’s surprising how someone can harbor so much dislike for someone they don’t know all that well. There’s a breaking news story in…

Seems the 10,000-hour rule doesn’t really fit for writing. — A lot of people believe your identity shapes up based on what you spend most of your time doing. Doctors devote the majority of their time to meeting patients. Singers dedicate themselves to singing, while athletes invest a significant portion of their time in practicing their sport. This notion gains…

Because it’s just in our nature as humans to keep comparing — I’ve reached a point in life where it seems like everything is urging me to rush. When we feel like we’re falling behind, our progress seems slow, and our goals keep getting delayed year after year, it’s tough not to compare ourselves to others. …

You might have just forgotten or not learned to do this. — I remembered the Joker film from 2019 and the popular phrase at the time: “Bad people come from good people who are hurt.” The story of the Joker is a reflection of reality. I’ve seen male friends who were neglected become playboys. I’ve also watched my betrayed girlfriend become more…